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Is there an alternative to social media for children?

Learn how to communicate by phone without a public profile, what to consider, and how private family communication works in Alkateia.

By AlkateiaUpdated September 20, 20263 min read

In this guide
  1. Does a child need social media to talk to friends and family? They do not need a public profile or followers to exchange messages. However, every service has age limits, contact methods, and terms of use that must be respected. Before opening an account, consider whether a device shared with a parent or guardian, a phone call, or an appropriate private space can meet the need. The federal guide recommends considering age and supervising use. (Federal Government of Brazil)
  2. Are social networks and messaging apps the same thing? Not necessarily. A messaging service may prioritize conversations with specific recipients; a social network may offer publishing to audiences and content discovery. Some platforms combine both. The product name alone is not enough: check which features are available and who can initiate contact. Legal classification also requires examining how a service works, not just its label.
  3. How can you communicate by phone without a public profile? Choose a communication channel, check who can find the account, and limit access to agreed contacts. Use recognizable names and a group with a clear purpose. Do not share credentials or invitations on public pages. Before a child uses it independently, test messaging together and explain how to ask an adult for help if something feels wrong.
  4. How does an app without followers or public profiles work? Alkateia has no public people search, followers, or open groups. The family uses text and voice messages among authorized members. To join, a person receives an invitation through a QR code, code, or unique link, accepts within its 10-minute validity period, and waits for approval from the parent, guardian, or administrator.
  5. How can you compare options beyond the word “safe”? Look at access control, privacy, support, account deletion, supported ages, and ease of use. Consider cost and the adults' commitment to participating. A private account may still receive inappropriate content from an authorized contact; the app does not replace dialogue and protection. (CERT.br)
  6. How much does family communication cost in Alkateia? The monthly plan costs R$49.90 for up to five people. The annual plan costs R$399.90, billed yearly. With five members, that is R$9.98 per person/month on the monthly plan and approximately R$6.67 on the annual plan. See the full plan comparison and the app's features.

Yes. To talk to people you know, you can choose direct communication instead of publishing to an audience. Start by separating two needs: staying in touch with family and participating in a network of content, followers, and people discovery.

Does a child need social media to talk to friends and family? They do not need a public profile or followers to exchange messages. However, every service has age limits, contact methods, and terms of use that must be respected. Before opening an account, consider whether a device shared with a parent or guardian, a phone call, or an appropriate private space can meet the need. The federal guide recommends considering age and supervising use. (Federal Government of Brazil)

Are social networks and messaging apps the same thing? Not necessarily. A messaging service may prioritize conversations with specific recipients; a social network may offer publishing to audiences and content discovery. Some platforms combine both. The product name alone is not enough: check which features are available and who can initiate contact. Legal classification also requires examining how a service works, not just its label.

How can you communicate by phone without a public profile? Choose a communication channel, check who can find the account, and limit access to agreed contacts. Use recognizable names and a group with a clear purpose. Do not share credentials or invitations on public pages. Before a child uses it independently, test messaging together and explain how to ask an adult for help if something feels wrong.

Alkateia private conversation list, with a family group and individual chats
Text and voice messages between authorized people. Tap the image to enlarge.

The aim is to bring families together, not create an open network for meeting people. The subscription covers up to five members, including the subscriber. For friendships and other circles, consider the service's purpose and limits; do not assume it provides school communities or public groups.

How can you compare options beyond the word “safe”? Look at access control, privacy, support, account deletion, supported ages, and ease of use. Consider cost and the adults' commitment to participating. A private account may still receive inappropriate content from an authorized contact; the app does not replace dialogue and protection. (CERT.br)

How much does family communication cost in Alkateia? The monthly plan costs R$49.90 for up to five people. The annual plan costs R$399.90, billed yearly. With five members, that is R$9.98 per person/month on the monthly plan and approximately R$6.67 on the annual plan. See the full plan comparison and the app's features.

Sources and references

  1. Federal Government of Brazil — Screen Use Guide: Recommendations for Families, Tutors, and Guardians
  2. CERT.br — Social Networks Booklet

Sources accessed September 20, 2026. Informational content produced by Alkateia; information about the app describes its own features.